{"id":334,"date":"2021-04-07T17:15:38","date_gmt":"2021-04-07T17:15:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sofiamoller.com\/?p=334"},"modified":"2022-08-23T17:29:24","modified_gmt":"2022-08-23T17:29:24","slug":"din-sidste-vilje","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sofiahagstrommoller.com\/index.php\/2021\/04\/07\/din-sidste-vilje\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cDin sidste vilje\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"jetpack-video-wrapper\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"En V\u00e6vefort\u00e6lling - Din Sidste Vilje\" width=\"1140\" height=\"641\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/COHqSszoAdA?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I en demensbolig i Sm\u00e5land i Sverige, bor min far lige nu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Den 3. maj, Fars f\u00f8dselsdag.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Den 3. maj 2020, 8.657 d\u00f8de p\u00e5 et d\u00f8gn af Corona i verden.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L\u00f8rdag den 23. maj bliver jeg ringet op og bedt om at komme til Sverige, da min far er d\u00f8ende efter en blodprop. Min mor og mine s\u00f8skende bes\u00f8ger far og siger farvel, men far d\u00f8r ikke. Der gives kun adgang til bes\u00f8g udend\u00f8rs, men min far er sengeliggende, og ingen kan bes\u00f8ge ham.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Den 26. maj f\u00e5r jeg besked om, at min far har f\u00e5et konstateret Covid-19.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mit behov for at bearbejde mine f\u00f8lelser er stort i Coronatiden; jeg finder min styrke i mit h\u00e5ndv\u00e6rk, ved min v\u00e6v bruger jeg nedlukningen til at v\u00e6ve. Til at lade h\u00e6nderne virke i det, som de kender helt af sig selv, bl\u00f8de materialer i uld og i silke, der bliver v\u00e6vet sammen, lag p\u00e5 lag, indpluk efter indpluk.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-coblocks-gallery-collage has-small-gutter\"><ul><li class=\"wp-block-coblocks-gallery-collage__item item-1\"><figure class=\"wp-block-coblocks-gallery-collage__figure\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/sofiamollerblog.files.wordpress.com\/2021\/04\/sofia-i-kaelderen-7-maj-2020_dsf8652-53-1.jpg?w=1140\" alt=\"\" data-index=\"0\" data-id=\"355\" data-imglink=\"\" data-link=\"https:\/\/sofiamoller.com\/sofia-i-kaelderen-7-maj-2020_dsf8652-53-1\/\" class=\"wp-image-355\"><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-coblocks-gallery-collage__item item-2\"><figure class=\"wp-block-coblocks-gallery-collage__figure\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/sofiamollerblog.files.wordpress.com\/2021\/04\/detail_dsf9546-1.jpg?w=1140\" alt=\"\" data-index=\"1\" data-id=\"357\" data-imglink=\"\" data-link=\"https:\/\/sofiamoller.com\/detail_dsf9546-1\/\" class=\"wp-image-357\"><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-coblocks-gallery-collage__item item-3\"><figure class=\"wp-block-coblocks-gallery-collage__figure\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/sofiamollerblog.files.wordpress.com\/2021\/04\/detail_dsf9579-1.jpg?w=1140\" alt=\"\" data-index=\"2\" data-id=\"358\" data-imglink=\"\" data-link=\"https:\/\/sofiamoller.com\/detail_dsf9579-1\/\" class=\"wp-image-358\"><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-coblocks-gallery-collage__item item-4\"><figure class=\"wp-block-coblocks-gallery-collage__figure\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/sofiamollerblog.files.wordpress.com\/2021\/04\/sofia-i-kaelderen-7-maj-2020_dsf8652-57-1.jpg?w=1140\" alt=\"\" data-index=\"3\" data-id=\"359\" data-imglink=\"\" data-link=\"https:\/\/sofiamoller.com\/sofia-i-kaelderen-7-maj-2020_dsf8652-57-1\/\" class=\"wp-image-359\"><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-coblocks-gallery-collage__item item-5\"><figure class=\"wp-block-coblocks-gallery-collage__figure\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/sofiamollerblog.files.wordpress.com\/2021\/04\/detail_dsf9772-1.jpg?w=1140\" alt=\"\" data-index=\"4\" data-id=\"360\" data-imglink=\"\" data-link=\"https:\/\/sofiamoller.com\/detail_dsf9772-1\/\" class=\"wp-image-360\"><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tiden ved min v\u00e6v i mit v\u00e6rksted blev til mange timer, ikke kun med refleksioner over min far, men til refleksioner over alle de mange d\u00f8de.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vores brug for ritualer, d\u00f8dsritualer, bliver vigtig for mig, for lige pludselig var det ikke muligt for mange mennesker at f\u00e5 en v\u00e6rdig begravelse, da der var for mange d\u00f8de p\u00e5 samme tid. Lig blev fragtet v\u00e6k p\u00e5 store lastbiler, lig blev lagt i sorte s\u00e6kke, gravet ned for at forhindre smitte. Lig\u2026 der engang var et elsket menneske, en elsket far..&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mennesker der ikke m\u00e5tte sige farvel til deres k\u00e6reste.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ritualer ved begravelser har en stor betydning for bearbejdningen af det at sige farvel.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mit v\u00e6rk er et \u201db\u00e5rt\u00e4cke\u201d, et fint stykke stof, der ofte bliver brugt i Sverige til at l\u00e6gge over kisten ved en begravelse, det bliver ikke begravet sammen med kisten, men virker som en dekoration inde i kirken. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mit \u201db\u00e5rt\u00e4cke\u201d er v\u00e6vet ud fra skitser, som jeg har malet sammen med min far for mange \u00e5r siden, da han var rask. Vi talte tit om d\u00f8den, og hans \u00f8nske var, at jeg ville v\u00e6ve et\u201d b\u00e5rt\u00e4cke\u201d for ham som det sidste farvel. Jeg styrker mig ved mindet om samtalerne om d\u00f8den sammen med min far. Den styrke gav mig ro til at gennemf\u00f8re mit ritual ved v\u00e6ven, at v\u00e6ve tanker og minder ind med silke og uld.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/sofiamollerblog.files.wordpress.com\/2021\/04\/helhed_dsf9810.jpg?w=1140\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-342\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fredag den 26. juni 2020 blev min Far blev erkl\u00e6ret rask fra Covid-19, men er sv\u00e6rt medtaget.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I en demensbolig i Sm\u00e5land i Sverige, bor min far lige nu.&nbsp; Den 3. maj, Fars f\u00f8dselsdag.&nbsp; Den 3. maj &hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/sofiahagstrommoller.com\/index.php\/2021\/04\/07\/din-sidste-vilje\/\">More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":736,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"image","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[34],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-334","post","type-post","status-publish","format-image","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-works","post_format-post-format-image","","fallback-thumbnail"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/sofiahagstrommoller.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Helhed_nedfra_Din_sidste_vilje_DSF9601.jpg?fit=1342%2C2000&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sofiahagstrommoller.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/334","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sofiahagstrommoller.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sofiahagstrommoller.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sofiahagstrommoller.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sofiahagstrommoller.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=334"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/sofiahagstrommoller.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/334\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":797,"href":"https:\/\/sofiahagstrommoller.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/334\/revisions\/797"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sofiahagstrommoller.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/736"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sofiahagstrommoller.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=334"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sofiahagstrommoller.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=334"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sofiahagstrommoller.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=334"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}